- Nurture your child's interests through exploration
- Encourage your child's autonomy by making choices, identifying preferences / interests, and expressing opinions
- Develop competence through goal setting, taking on challenges
- Talk with your child's team and advocate for your child's meaningful participation in IEP meetings
- Help identify components of a Good Day Plan and the I'm Determined One Pager and share with your child's school team
- High expectations / dream big
- Talk to your child's team about factors to consider related to assessment and diploma options
- Build early executive functioning skills (focus, attention, task initiation, self-regulation)
- Model the decision-making process
- Explore skills and tasks related to various careers
- Listen for consistent career-related interests and explore those possibilities
- Encourage persistence
- Emphasize the importance of teamwork in working towards a common goal (in families, school, teams, etc.)
- Help your child use a daily schedule and mark off items as they are completed
- Categorize jobs that people have in the community (e.g., grocery store, bank, recreation facilities)
- If possible, take your child / children to work to shadow what you do
- Talk with your child's team about possible school / classroom jobs
- Discuss jobs in a way that makes them more accessible to your child
- Encourage and monitor positive relationships
- Develop a plan to seek help if they feel unsafe
- Help your child develop skills and confidence by building routines for completing home chores and activities independently
- Encourage your child to complete self-care tasks with increasing independence
- Encourage your child to make choices (e.g., clothing, lunch items)
- Visit community locations (e.g., stores, restaurants, parks)
- Support your child in using problem-solving strategies to encourage flexibility
- Differentiate between strangers and trusted adults
This product was created by the Family Engagement Network (FEN), through a grant provided by the Virginia Department of Education and managed by the Center for Family Involvement at the Partnership for People with Disabilities at Virginia Commonwealth University.